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Najal
Judd - 806
Life
is a gift. You will never know what opportunities are out there unless you let
your fear go and follow your heart.
I
know that my family and I have made many decisions in our lives that have
either benefitted us or have not. But in the midst of tough times we breathe
and with confidence and knowledge we conquer the issue at hand. You may
sometimes fear your future, but all you have to do is embrace it and stay
optimistic. It is your life and you are in control of the path that you take.
The
“Moon and More,” by Sarah Dessen is about a small-town girl named Emaline. In
the midst of her hectic summer working and preparing for college, a student
named Theo, and his so called boss from New York pay a visit to Colby in hopes
of making a movie starring a famous artist who lives in town. Surprisingly
Emaline becomes a large part of the production. Due to the long days spent with
Theo, working on the movie, their perplexed relationship grows stronger. As she
learns new things from him, she finds answers to the big questions lingering in
her life. This book is meaningful for teenagers because it gives insight to the
struggles and decisions we may come to experience.
Not
long after Columbia University accepts Emaline, her father tells her that he
can not pay for her tuition. The promise he has kept since the beginning of
High School. Emaline’s father has never been fair to her and the rest of her
family. This was the way he thought he could make it up to her, but like many
other times he failed to do so. Despite Emaline being furious she starts
accepting the fact that she will be attending the community college fifteen
minutes away. As a result she stops aspiring to her dreams and thinking about
her future. But as she meets new people she realizes that there are so many
opportunities that she was not chasing and she becomes aware that there is more
that she can do with her life. This demonstrates to teenagers that even though
you do not get what you want, you still should make the best of it. For
example, if you do not get the job that you have interviewed for but instead
you have to accept a second possibly lesser job that in the end this may
benefit you nevertheless. This
could prove to be frustrating and irritating but the result can be positive if
the person uses all that they are given and stays open and inspired. Never stop
dreaming about a bright future, because if you do, you will miss out on what
life has to offer. Just like Emaline almost did.
Later
on, Theo’s boss whom is hated offers Emaline a job. Theo advises Emaline not to
take it because of his constant struggles with his boss. Emaline is conflicted
about whether she should listen to her boyfriend, but finally goes with her gut
and decides to do it. Luckily Emaline scores many new opportunities, and
experiences much more then she would have otherwise. Soon after, Emaline finds
herself on an airplane headed to New York City, where she discovers a whole new
world, as well as new people, new things to see, and a different
atmosphere. This turning point in Emaline’s life is meaningful because it
shows that she trusted herself and did what was best for her. This
sentiment is exactly what all teenagers should take into account within their
own lives as they are being challenged with the many decisions while maturing.
Emaline
ends up realizing that knowing about different parts of the world and different
places is a beautiful thing. The author states, “ The thing is, you can’t
always have the best of everything. Because for a life to be real, you need it
all: Good and bad, beach and concrete, the familiar and the unknown, big
talkers and small towns.”(pg. 435) Emaline has struggled with this concept but
as she grew as a person and stepped out of her shell, she realized she will
need to experience the new in order to gain what life has to offer.
Teenagers have and will always come to a point in there lives that they will be
faced with a decision or are trying to find out who they are, where they belong,
and where life will take them next. The most important lesson to learn is that
you have complete control over what you decide to do and where you decide to
be. Being exposed to different places and experiences will only benefit you and
will spark new relationships and opportunities.
Sometimes
I wonder, what if someone planned out my life for me and told me exactly how to
live? I would never be able to do the things I have dreamt of doing. I would never
be able to make my own choices. My life would not be considered mine. It would
be considered someone else’s. This brings me to realize that I should never let
anyone take advantage of me, or push me to do things that I think are wrong for
me. Our lives belong to us and only us. “The Moon and More” has and will
bring this point up for many teenagers who read it, which will help shape the
their lives. It will provide a guide to the hardships and the life changing
decisions we might come across in our futures. This book has given me an open
feeling about transitioning into adult hood. Trust yourself and make decisions
based on what and who will benefit you. Go with your gut and follow your path.
Fear should never stop you. You should crush it and absorb the many things that
are out there instead. Never cease to learn and discover. You should live a
life filled with joy and sorrow, approval and disapproval, love and loneliness,
gain and loss, and everything else in between because you will not always experience
the good but also the bad. For a life to be lived to it’s fullest you will need
both to learn and to thrive.